International Journal of Coercion, Abuse, and Manipulation Volume 9 2026 2
treatment recommendations for counselors.
Unique Experiences of Trauma in the TGD Population
TGD survivors of IPV experience forms of victimization
that are uniquely tied to their gender identity—
experiences that cisgender survivors do not encounter.
One of the most distinct and pervasive tactics is
identity abuse, which includes threats of “outing” a
survivor’s gender identity, deliberate misgendering,
withholding gender-affirming care or clothing, and
leveraging societal transmisia to isolate or control the
survivor (Henry et al., 2021 Peitzmeier et al., 2021).
These forms of abuse weaponize the survivor’s identity
against them, often exploiting their vulnerability
within transphobic systems, such as healthcare,
law enforcement, and housing (Beyer et al., 2022
Rogers, 2016 Seelman, 2015). For example, abusers
may threaten to disclose a survivor’s trans status to
employers, family, or authorities, knowing that such
disclosure could result in discrimination, loss of
employment, or physical danger. This form of coercive
control is specific to TGD individuals and is rarely, if
ever, experienced by cisgender survivors (Henry et al.,
2021).
Additionally, TGD survivors face institutional betrayal
and systemic exclusion that compound their trauma.
Many are denied access to shelters, misclassified by
law enforcement, or subjected to mistreatment when
seeking help, such as being arrested instead of their
abuser or denied entry to gendered services (Kurdyla,
2023 Momen &DeKeseredy, 2020). These experiences
are not only retraumatizing but also reinforce the
abuser’s control by confirming the survivor’s fears that
no safe or affirming support exists. The intersection
of IPV and transmisia creates a landscape where TGD
survivors must navigate both interpersonal violence
and structural violence simultaneously (Peitzmeier et
al., 2021 Scheer &Poteat, 2021). This dual burden—of
surviving abuse while also surviving systemic erasure—
marks a distinct and urgent need for identity-affirming,
trauma-informed care that recognizes and responds to
these unique forms of victimization.
Coercion
Sexual coercion in IPV against TGD individuals is
best understood through the lens of coercive control
theory, which conceptualizes abuse as a patterned
strategy of domination designed to entrap and erode
a survivor’s autonomy (Tolmie, Smith, &Wilson,
2024). Within T-IPV, sexual coercion is not limited
to isolated incidents of unwanted sexual contact—
it often involves sustained manipulation, threats, and
exploitation of identity-specific vulnerabilities. Abusers
may weaponize gender-affirming needs, such as access
to hormones, clothing, or social validation, coercing
survivors into unwanted sexual activity under threat
of outing, abandonment, or withdrawal of support.
These tactics reflect a broader system of control that
leverages societal transmisia and institutional betrayal
to reinforce dependency and fear.
Findings from the Australian Trans and Gender
Diverse Sexual Health Survey reveal that 53.4% of TGD
participants reported experiencing sexual coercion,
with elevated risk among nonbinary individuals
presumed female at birth and those living publicly
in their affirmed gender (Simpson et al., 2024). The
study also highlights how help-seeking behaviors are
often shaped by access to peer support and affirming
care, underscoring the importance of relational safety
in recovery. When viewed through coercive control
theory, sexual coercion in T-IPV emerges as a deliberate
mechanism of entrapment—one that exploits both
interpersonal dynamics and systemic oppression. For
clinicians, recognizing this patterned abuse is essential
to developing trauma-informed, identity-affirming
interventions that restore agency and disrupt cycles of
domination.
Abuse
Physical and sexual abuse are frequently weaponized
as tools of control and subjugation in IPV against TGD
individuals, functioning not only as acts of interpersonal
harm but as mechanisms of identity-based domination
(Beyer et al., 2022 Kussin-Shoptaw et al., 2017).
Perpetrators may exploit the unique vulnerabilities of
TGD survivors, such as limited access to affirming care,
housing instability, or fear of institutional betrayal,
to isolate, silence, and retraumatize them. Research
indicates that nearly half of transgender individuals
have experienced sexual violence in their lifetime, with
a significant portion of these assaults perpetrated by
current or former partners (Beyer et al., 2022 James
et al., 2016). These acts often intersect with transmisia,
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as abusers may target gender identity through coercive
sexual acts, physical assaults, or threats that reinforce
shame, dependency, and fear. Kussin-Shoptaw et al.
(2017) found that 85% of high-risk trans women in
their study reported lifetime experiences of physical
or sexual abuse, which were strongly associated
with elevated psychological distress across multiple
domains. Such findings underscore how physical and
sexual abuse in T-IPV contexts is not only a means of
exerting power but also a reflection of broader societal
systems that devalue and endanger transgender lives.
Manipulation
Manipulation in IPV toward TGD individuals often
manifests through psychological and identity-based
tactics that exploit systemic vulnerabilities and
internalized stigma (Beyer et al., 2022 Kussin-Shoptaw
et al., 2017). Unlike overt physical or sexual abuse,
manipulation operates through subtle, persistent
strategies that distort reality, erode self-trust, and
isolate survivors from affirming support. Abusers may
gaslight TGD partners by questioning the validity of
their gender identity, framing their need for affirmation
as unreasonable, or using societal transmisia to justify
controlling behaviors. For example, an abuser might
insist that a survivor’s gender expression is the cause
of interpersonal conflict or social rejection, reinforcing
shame and dependency. These tactics are particularly
insidious because they mirror the invalidation TGD
individuals often face in broader society, making it
harder for survivors to recognize manipulation as
abuse. Research underscores that TGD survivors
frequently experience compounded psychological
distress due to these dynamics, especially when
manipulation intersects with prior trauma, minority
stress, and systemic erasure (Beyer et al., 2022 Kussin-
Shoptaw et al., 2017). In this context, manipulation
becomes a powerful tool of domination—one that
undermines autonomy not through force, but through
the distortion of identity, reality, and relational safety.
T-IPV
Research shows a notably high rate of intimate partner
violence (IPV) in relationships with at least one
transgender or gender nonconforming (TGD) partner,
along with social exclusion and negative mental
health effects (Beyer et al., 2022 Dolan &Conroy,
2021 Goode, 2023 Henry et al., 2021 Howard et al.,
2020 King et al., 2021 Kurdyla et al., 2021 Marrow
et al., 2024 Peitzmeier et al., 2021 Scheer &Poteat,
2021 Valentine et al., 2017 Whitfield et al., 2021).
Trans women are three times more likely to report
sexual violence compared to their cisgender male and
female counterparts (NCAVP, 2016). Due to the bias
of cisgender and heteronormative language of current
IPV research, prevention programs, public health
programs, and other survivor support services, this
vulnerable population lacks the necessary inclusive
resources for support (Howard et al., 2020). Most
IPV research and support services use language that
excludes transgender and gender non-conforming
individuals, leading to inaccurate data and a lack of
inclusive resources for them. Expanding research and
services for TGD survivors requires moving beyond the
traditional IPV narrative to include their experiences
and stories.
Unique Features, Barriers, and Outcomes of T-IPV
Many common barriers exist in the T-IPV literature.
Most studies indicate that T-IPV survivors face
discrimination when seeking services, such as shelters,
legal protection, and social aid (Beyer et al., 2022 Dolan
&Conroy, 2021 Goode, 2023 Henry et al., 2021
Howard et al., 2020 King et al., 2021 Kurdyla et al.,
2021 Kurdyla, 2023 Marrow et al., 2024 Peitzmeier
et al., 2021 Seelman, 2015 Scheer &Poteat, 2021
Valentine et al., 2017 Whitfield et al., 2021). Research
also highlights various forms of violence against T-IPV
survivors, essential to understanding for providing
effective support (Beyer et al., 2022 Dolan &Conroy,
2021 Messinger &Guadalupe-Diaz, 2021 Momen
&DeKeseredy, 2020 NCAVP, 2016). Momen and
DeKeseredy identified abuse tactics including sexual
violence, stalking, physical violence, psychological
manipulation, persistent threats, financial abuse,
and forcing victims to witness harm to loved ones or
property (2020).
Research shows that TGD survivors face unique
challenges that cisgender IPV survivors do not, such as
being blackmailed with threats of being outed (James et
al., 2016). In 2015, only 27% sought safety in shelters,
with 44% denied entry due to gender identity (NCAVP,
2016). This underscores the need for inclusive shelters
and awareness. Additionally, only 33% reported IPV
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