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cult activities‖ (p. 20), would more properly be termed shame (Note 7). It is most likely a
reversal of the ―logical dishonoring of self‖ which Lifton (1961) saw in the conversion
process, and will, therefore, usually manifest in the ―lost years‖ aspect of the ex-cultist
depression, as well as in the sense of humiliation for having been duped (cf. Appel, 1983
Etemad, 1978 Schwartz &Kaslow, 1979, 1981 Shapiro, 1977). Singer (1979) identified
this problem as ―the agonies of explaining‖ (p. 80).
Fear. AFF saw three fears: fear of retribution from the cult for leaving, of having to explain
their joining, and of becoming (or that they already are) psychotic, i.e., ―crazy.‖ AFF also
placed Singer‘s fishbowl effect here--the sense of being continually watched.
Goldberg and Goldberg saw the fear of punishment by the cult for leaving as a first-stage
affective problem. They associated it with the frequent occurrence of nightmares, a
phenomenon also reported by Clark (1979b, p-4), Heller (1972, p. 133), and Stoner &
Parke (1977, pp. 416-417).
Singer (1979) reported, ―when members do leave, efforts to get them back reportedly
range from moderate harassment to incidents involving the use of force‖ (p. 79). ―At the
root of ex-members‘ fear is often the memory of old humiliations for stepping out of line‖
(p. 79). Furthermore, ―fear may be most acute for former members who have left a spouse
or children behind in the cults that recruited couples or families‖ (p. 80). Thus, while
paranoid tendencies might be revealed in psychological testing (Spero, 1982 Ungerleider
&Wellisch, 1979b), and while ex-cultists may even demonstrate transient ideas of reference
or influence (AFF, p. 22 Galanter, 1983a, p. 988), they still have legitimate reasons for
their fears.
Levine (1979) has confirmed that this is a real fear, that it takes one of two forms:
either it is impersonal (spiritual or religious) in nature, or personal .(and
physical). The former has to do with breaking the precepts of the religion, or
sinning it implies vague but powerful punishment from the deity or his
incarnation on earth. The latter represents fear of retribution at the hands of
cultists who have been betrayed. This fear occasionally prevents ex-members
from sharing any information about their former religious group. It is usually
irrationally based, but certainly has validity in some situations ...(P. 599).
Schwartz and Kaslow (1979) have simultaneously, though not as directly, differentiated
between supernatural horrors to come, e.g., ―doomed to be invaded by Satan,‖ and more
personal and physical punishment by the cult itself for any defection (p. 23).
Finally, in addition to fears of supernatural and physical retribution (with or without
accompanying nightmares), fears of going psychotic (cf. Spero‘s ―fear of being
overwhelmed‖, 1982, p. 341--which in some cases should be a legitimate concern for the
therapist Kirsch &Glass, 1977, p. 1257) and fears of being asked to explain. Spero (1977)
suggests that ―if there were fears and ambivalences and tendencies toward regression prior
to an adolescent‘s cult involvement, the deprogrammed youth experiences these ten-fold‖
(p. 338). With the reemergence of the old personality (stage two) will undoubtedly come all
the fears and conflicts which the regressive conversion had previously helped to repress.
Anger. The reacquisition of self-confidence which accompanies the reemergence of the
pre-cult personality (Goldbergs‘ stage two) almost always involves ―a sense of outrage,
indignation, and anger toward the cult‖ (AFF, P. 20) for having been duped, cheated, and
used. The Goldbergs said this often takes on the form of a crusade against the cult(s) (cf.
Langone, 1984, p. 72 Stoner &Parke, 1977, p. 425 and footnote 6 again), which Galanter
(1983a) believes sometimes develops into a genuine ―paranoid attitude toward the sect,
even to the point of compromised reality testing‖ (p. 988). It might also spark attempts to
rescue friends and family members still in the group (AFF, p. 70).
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In addition to anger at the cult, both the Goldbergs (p. 169) and AFF noted the directing of
anger at parents for their allowing the conversion to take place, as well as for their part in
the rescuing and deprogramming. The Goldbergs, likewise, have suggested that conflicts
with parents will begin to emerge during this time, particularly over their overprotective
behavior. Schwartz and Kaslow (1981) have associated this conflict with the parental
―caretaker response,‖ but have also suggested that some parents‘ overprotectiveness might
have contributed to their child‘s vulnerability to cult conversion in the first place. Again,
whatever conflicts were there prior to conversion are sure to reemerge with the
resurrection of the pre-cult personality. And whatever anger emerges can always be
distorted into negative transference placed onto the therapist.
Interpersonal Problems
In addition to the effect of depression, guilt, shame, fear and anger upon relationships, the
ex-cultists experience some problems unique to their readjusting to the social realm of the
extra-cult world. In general, they tend to show poor social judgment or discrimination and a
rather labile reaction to post-cult experience: for example, leaping quickly into a romantic
relationship, only to withdraw just as swiftly, should the other not reciprocate (AFF, p. 19).
Perhaps, passive dependency best describes the cultist‘s relationships overall, with
ambivalence best describing the ex-cultists. For instance, both will want to be dependent on
others (especially authority), but the ex-cultists will also oscillate between this blind trust
and a suspiciousness and distrust of others (e.g., for having been duped before, cf. AFF, p.
20 Langone, 1984, p. 72). Specific interpersonal problems, then, come from dealing with
extra-cult peers, authority figures and family members.
Peer problems. Many ex-cultists experience an impaired capacity for effective horizontal
relationship interaction due to their cults having discouraged horizontal relationships in
favor of vertical deference to leaders (cf. Enroth, 1977a, p. 174 Goldberg &Goldberg,
1982, p. 169 Martin, 1979, p. 147 Singer, 1979, P. 76 Spero, 1982, p. 342). But one
must realize that poor heterosexual relationships often predated the cult experience, with
the structured social life of the cult being one of its former points of attraction (e.g.,
Deutsch &Miller, 1983). Difficulties stemming from social skills lost during cult involvement
are then compounded by fear and shame related to cult taboos, pre-cult anxieties regarding
sexuality, dating, and marriage, and an upsurge of testing binges of dating, drinking, and
sexuality (especially during stage two Goldberg &Goldberg, 1982, p. 169 cf. Singer, 1979,
p. 76).
According to an anonymous psychologist quoted by Stoner and Parke (1977), ―There is a
great fear of commitment when a person leaves a cult. Ex-cultists have tremendous needs
to confide and be accepted, but at the same time they are so afraid to get involved‖ (p.
413). Ambivalence distrust, yet great loneliness due to the loss of friends and intimacy
provided by the group is frequently seen. And, in many cases, pre-cult friends are gone as
well (Burtner, 1980 t. 3, s. 2 Goldberg &Goldberg, 1982, p. 168 Schwartz &Kaslow,
1979, p. 24 1981, p. 26 Singer, 1979, p. 76 West &Singer, 1980, p. 3251).
Authoritv Problems. As previously discussed in the ―Ego Functioning‖ section above, the
individual withdrawing from an extremist cult will tend to persist in his emotionally
dependent, passive receptivity to authority figures because of the continuation of impaired
reality frames, which make differentiation difficult. His former mental linkage, or extension
of his ego boundaries, to his cult leaders provides him with a boost of ―ego strength‖ at the
cost of relinquishing his voluntary control over his ego functioning.
Idealization of authority, therefore, brings with it the dissociative obverse of devaluation of
the self, specifically the pre-cult self or personality. Transference seen during reevaluation
and the first stage of cult recovery will, therefore, resemble that of the narcissistic and
borderline personalities (cf. Beahrs, 1982, p. 159 Kernberg, 1967, 1968, 1975). The three
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