depressed, that her behavior was
perhaps the result of circumstance rather
than innate personality. (p. 44)
Beck attributed some of her mother’s actions to
gender norms within the Mormon town of
Provo.
Flora Jessop declared that all her siblings who
left the FLDS loved and missed her mother
(2009, p. x). Nonetheless, she viewed her
mother’s compliance as devastating to her
family and cautioned, “Blind obedience to evil is
still evil” (2009, p. ix). Her mother obeyed
demands to give seven of her children to her
father’s half-brother, a prominent and sterile
FLDS man (who was Wall’s stepfather and
Flora’s future step-father):
I would often catch Mom crying silently
to herself. She spent much of her time
staring into space, a distant hollow look
in her eyes. But she never complained.
She never spoke against my dad. She
never said a word about the seven
daughters who had been taken from her.
(2009, p. 14)
Flora Jessop explained, “I loved my mom a lot.
But sadly, because she was always so depressed
and beaten down, she had little positive
influence on my life when I was growing up”
(2009, p. 25). Instead, Flora said she found love
and affection from her grandmother, but that she
lacked the much-needed protection from FLDS
rules that she and her siblings needed (2009, p.
26).
Flora Jessop provided no evidence that her
mother intentionally abused or neglected her
children. Rather, she suggested that her mother’s
compliance limited her parenting abilities. For
example, Flora explained that after her little
sister, Ruby, failed to escape the FLDS, Jessop
told her mother it was time to change. She wrote
that she had heard enough of her mother’s
excuses for not protecting Flora from her father
raping her (2009, p. 173). She recounted how
she phoned her mother on several occasions
after she had fled the FLDS and snuck into
Colorado City (the FLDS commune) in order to
visit her mother (2009, p. 132). Despite her
overall compliance, Flora demonstrated her
mother’s conflicting commitments. Her mother
did not shun her when she visited, warned her
when FLDS authorities were attempting to
kidnap her back into the FLDS, and even visited
her once (2009, pp. 128, 132, 167).
Flora Jessop recognized her mother’s potential
to act otherwise in a controlling social
environment, and she expected such deviation
from what she thought was normal FLDS
behavior. Although Flora acknowledged her
mother’s role in her abuse, she did not express
resentment or blame toward her mother to the
extent she did her father. Despite the feelings
she expressed towards her mother, Flora’s book
presented her father as hypocritically compliant
in that he intentionally harmed his children in
ways that she suggested were excessive even in
her religious community.
Hypocritical Compliance and Detachment
Authors whose parents’ abusive behaviors
overshot religious demands wrote about parental
detachment. These parents allegedly deviated
from beliefs to drink, be adulterous, and inflict
excessive corporeal punishment, while they
forced strict religious adherence upon their
children. In response to these behaviors, authors
claimed they felt unloved because their parents
provided no protection, showed little affection,
and deviated from doctrines to satisfy guilty
pleasures. Regardless of their standard of
evaluation, all authors expressed that familial
love was normal. Therefore, when abuse
accompanied detachment, authors rarely
expressed forgiveness for their parents’ actions.
Julia Scheeres, Flora Jessop, and Brian Mackert
wrote about one or both of their parents this
way.
Scheeres (2005) held her father responsible for
physically abusing her siblings, but she
emphasized her mother’s lack of love:
When I was little and teachers had us
make Mother’s Day cards in art class
and told us to write “I love you” inside,
I’d write “no” somewhere near the
phrase. I no love you because you no
love me. (p. 333)
Scheeres wrote that the abuse in her family
resulted from a lack of love, and that children
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perhaps the result of circumstance rather
than innate personality. (p. 44)
Beck attributed some of her mother’s actions to
gender norms within the Mormon town of
Provo.
Flora Jessop declared that all her siblings who
left the FLDS loved and missed her mother
(2009, p. x). Nonetheless, she viewed her
mother’s compliance as devastating to her
family and cautioned, “Blind obedience to evil is
still evil” (2009, p. ix). Her mother obeyed
demands to give seven of her children to her
father’s half-brother, a prominent and sterile
FLDS man (who was Wall’s stepfather and
Flora’s future step-father):
I would often catch Mom crying silently
to herself. She spent much of her time
staring into space, a distant hollow look
in her eyes. But she never complained.
She never spoke against my dad. She
never said a word about the seven
daughters who had been taken from her.
(2009, p. 14)
Flora Jessop explained, “I loved my mom a lot.
But sadly, because she was always so depressed
and beaten down, she had little positive
influence on my life when I was growing up”
(2009, p. 25). Instead, Flora said she found love
and affection from her grandmother, but that she
lacked the much-needed protection from FLDS
rules that she and her siblings needed (2009, p.
26).
Flora Jessop provided no evidence that her
mother intentionally abused or neglected her
children. Rather, she suggested that her mother’s
compliance limited her parenting abilities. For
example, Flora explained that after her little
sister, Ruby, failed to escape the FLDS, Jessop
told her mother it was time to change. She wrote
that she had heard enough of her mother’s
excuses for not protecting Flora from her father
raping her (2009, p. 173). She recounted how
she phoned her mother on several occasions
after she had fled the FLDS and snuck into
Colorado City (the FLDS commune) in order to
visit her mother (2009, p. 132). Despite her
overall compliance, Flora demonstrated her
mother’s conflicting commitments. Her mother
did not shun her when she visited, warned her
when FLDS authorities were attempting to
kidnap her back into the FLDS, and even visited
her once (2009, pp. 128, 132, 167).
Flora Jessop recognized her mother’s potential
to act otherwise in a controlling social
environment, and she expected such deviation
from what she thought was normal FLDS
behavior. Although Flora acknowledged her
mother’s role in her abuse, she did not express
resentment or blame toward her mother to the
extent she did her father. Despite the feelings
she expressed towards her mother, Flora’s book
presented her father as hypocritically compliant
in that he intentionally harmed his children in
ways that she suggested were excessive even in
her religious community.
Hypocritical Compliance and Detachment
Authors whose parents’ abusive behaviors
overshot religious demands wrote about parental
detachment. These parents allegedly deviated
from beliefs to drink, be adulterous, and inflict
excessive corporeal punishment, while they
forced strict religious adherence upon their
children. In response to these behaviors, authors
claimed they felt unloved because their parents
provided no protection, showed little affection,
and deviated from doctrines to satisfy guilty
pleasures. Regardless of their standard of
evaluation, all authors expressed that familial
love was normal. Therefore, when abuse
accompanied detachment, authors rarely
expressed forgiveness for their parents’ actions.
Julia Scheeres, Flora Jessop, and Brian Mackert
wrote about one or both of their parents this
way.
Scheeres (2005) held her father responsible for
physically abusing her siblings, but she
emphasized her mother’s lack of love:
When I was little and teachers had us
make Mother’s Day cards in art class
and told us to write “I love you” inside,
I’d write “no” somewhere near the
phrase. I no love you because you no
love me. (p. 333)
Scheeres wrote that the abuse in her family
resulted from a lack of love, and that children
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