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would sleep until shortly after noon, his longest sustained period of sleep since the
deprogramming began. As I reviewed my notes, Sandy asked what I thought of what I had
observed thus far. We set up some chairs out on the pool patio, and this question led into a
long discussion of Sandy's view of the deprogramming process.
According to Sandy, the first task of the deprogramming is to disarm the leader, followed
closely by a critical review of the discrepancies between the group's public image and how it
really behaves “behind closed dom.” Then, the deprogrammers debunk the scripture they
point out the discrepancies between the group's doctrine and its actions. On an involuntary
deprogramming, the literature on thought reform material then follows. On a voluntary
deprogramming (also generally known as an “exit-counseling”), one must be more careful.
The deprogrammers must debunk the doctrine, and show the contradictions in what the
leader says, but they don't directly attack the leader “Work with the fallacy. You don't attack
the leader so much as you do some of the things he may have said that are out of context
(i.e., that the leader used out of context] or historically inaccurate. And then give them the
thought reform, and then tear the leader apart on a voluntary [deprogramming].” I asked
why the leader is treated more delicately on a voluntary. Sandy replied, “Because [when]
you get in a voluntary situation, most of these guys are really looked into the leader, they
think they're almost deities, you know, idols. You start tearing them apart (too early) and
that‟s going to close them off from receiving anything else.” Of course, “it depends on the
leader.” To some extent, the cultist will let you know what he or she can listen to first.
Sandy went on to tell how they let the involuntary deprogrammee know what is going to
happen: “We tell them [that] what we want to do is address the philosophy, we want to
address the leadership, the foundation of it, and then we want to go into the thought reform
process to give [them) the framework to put all “stuff together.” Most often, this is told to
the cultist on the way to the deprogramming site. Sandy explained. “Yeah, we‟re up front
about things, there's no use in hiding anything.” I noted that this might give cultists a way
to map their progress, which could be dangerous (for the deprogrammers) if the cultist is
trying to “fake” it. Sandy responded, “They're not thinking much along those lines ...Most
of them are just pretty scared, and we're just trying to let them know that there is a
schedule, there is a progression that we kind of go at ...and we demystify it. They're
scared, [they believe] the demons have them now.”
Sandy and Curt tell the cultist he or she will meet ex-members who will share their
experiences, and Sandy will share his experiences in his group. There will be few surprises.
“During the transfer, basically we just want to keep them calm. I tell them that “if what we
have is darkness and you have light, then there's no amount of darkness that is going to
overcome the light. So there's nothing to worry about. “You're the only one who has
nothing to lose. Your parents are taking the chance of never seeing you again [if] you go
underground, change your name, leave the country. We're taking the chance of having
criminal ...charges thrown at us. Along with your parents, who are taking that chance too.
You're the only one with nothing to lose. Either your faith's going to be strong, or you're
going to we that this isn't the place for you to be.” I asked Sandy if this little speech did
actually calm the cultists down a lot. Sandy said they varied, but that it does “give them
something to think about.” He then usually adds something like, “Look, you can put any
truth to the test, and if there's truth to it then it will pass the test. Truth always stands.”
Deprogramming uses to its advantage the cultist's belief that his or her group has the
absolute truth. Sandy explained. “It wouldn't be a cult if it didn't have the absolute truth.
That‟s just understood. They know they have the absolute truth, we know they think they
have the absolute truth.” What gets through to then,, Sandy continued, is when, after a
while, a deprogrammer begins to use the cults jargon. “Then they know you know your
stuff.”
would sleep until shortly after noon, his longest sustained period of sleep since the
deprogramming began. As I reviewed my notes, Sandy asked what I thought of what I had
observed thus far. We set up some chairs out on the pool patio, and this question led into a
long discussion of Sandy's view of the deprogramming process.
According to Sandy, the first task of the deprogramming is to disarm the leader, followed
closely by a critical review of the discrepancies between the group's public image and how it
really behaves “behind closed dom.” Then, the deprogrammers debunk the scripture they
point out the discrepancies between the group's doctrine and its actions. On an involuntary
deprogramming, the literature on thought reform material then follows. On a voluntary
deprogramming (also generally known as an “exit-counseling”), one must be more careful.
The deprogrammers must debunk the doctrine, and show the contradictions in what the
leader says, but they don't directly attack the leader “Work with the fallacy. You don't attack
the leader so much as you do some of the things he may have said that are out of context
(i.e., that the leader used out of context] or historically inaccurate. And then give them the
thought reform, and then tear the leader apart on a voluntary [deprogramming].” I asked
why the leader is treated more delicately on a voluntary. Sandy replied, “Because [when]
you get in a voluntary situation, most of these guys are really looked into the leader, they
think they're almost deities, you know, idols. You start tearing them apart (too early) and
that‟s going to close them off from receiving anything else.” Of course, “it depends on the
leader.” To some extent, the cultist will let you know what he or she can listen to first.
Sandy went on to tell how they let the involuntary deprogrammee know what is going to
happen: “We tell them [that] what we want to do is address the philosophy, we want to
address the leadership, the foundation of it, and then we want to go into the thought reform
process to give [them) the framework to put all “stuff together.” Most often, this is told to
the cultist on the way to the deprogramming site. Sandy explained. “Yeah, we‟re up front
about things, there's no use in hiding anything.” I noted that this might give cultists a way
to map their progress, which could be dangerous (for the deprogrammers) if the cultist is
trying to “fake” it. Sandy responded, “They're not thinking much along those lines ...Most
of them are just pretty scared, and we're just trying to let them know that there is a
schedule, there is a progression that we kind of go at ...and we demystify it. They're
scared, [they believe] the demons have them now.”
Sandy and Curt tell the cultist he or she will meet ex-members who will share their
experiences, and Sandy will share his experiences in his group. There will be few surprises.
“During the transfer, basically we just want to keep them calm. I tell them that “if what we
have is darkness and you have light, then there's no amount of darkness that is going to
overcome the light. So there's nothing to worry about. “You're the only one who has
nothing to lose. Your parents are taking the chance of never seeing you again [if] you go
underground, change your name, leave the country. We're taking the chance of having
criminal ...charges thrown at us. Along with your parents, who are taking that chance too.
You're the only one with nothing to lose. Either your faith's going to be strong, or you're
going to we that this isn't the place for you to be.” I asked Sandy if this little speech did
actually calm the cultists down a lot. Sandy said they varied, but that it does “give them
something to think about.” He then usually adds something like, “Look, you can put any
truth to the test, and if there's truth to it then it will pass the test. Truth always stands.”
Deprogramming uses to its advantage the cultist's belief that his or her group has the
absolute truth. Sandy explained. “It wouldn't be a cult if it didn't have the absolute truth.
That‟s just understood. They know they have the absolute truth, we know they think they
have the absolute truth.” What gets through to then,, Sandy continued, is when, after a
while, a deprogrammer begins to use the cults jargon. “Then they know you know your
stuff.”
